If you believe that there are such things as soul mates, Mr. and Mrs. Rights, White Knights and Cinderellas…………then there must also be many people out there who are not. So herein lies the dilemma, if you are going through life and these amazing people don’t show up  in your life, just what are you supposed to do?!

Not to be trite but I love the song that goes: “If you can’t be with the one you love, love the one you’re with!” If you think about it………..that makes a lot of sense!

But getting to my point, there are a lot of people that will be in your life over the years that can make you happy……..NOT just that “one somebody”!! If that somebody doesnt’ show up and/or is around for a while and dies on you…………do you just say well I had my shot and now it’s over……….I’ll never be happy again…….well, that’s just not so! Don’t sit around alone and waste opportunities to be important in somebodyelse’s life. Life is for the living! LIVE!

Think about this………….we change every 10 years……………so every 10 years we’re different people………..we like different things, we think differently, we love differently. And all the while we’re changing everybody else is changing too. So if you are with somebody for 40 years and they leave you or die………..somebody else is out there that’s in your same situation and you too need to meet up with each other.

HOW DO YOU DO THAT?!!!!! Actually it is really very simple!

1. Decide you don’t want to be alone………..you want companionship (define exactly what kind) and be very specific about details.

2. Write it down.

3. Concentrate about it…………….pray or meditate…..whatever you need to do to focus completely on what you want!

4. Believe that it will happen!

5. Be patient and wait.

IT WILL HAPPEN!      Questions? Comments?