INDULGE YOURSELF! WHY NOT?!

What do you do to reward yourself?  Don’t you deserve it? Of course you do!  Why would you not?

AS an example: I love Krispy Kreme donuts! Hot KK donuts! Right off the transfer belt! I can eat a dozen right out of the bag! Of course I don’t do that often………….just every chance I get!  HA!

A very good friend of ours overheard me say that I like Krispy Kreme donuts when they are still hot! And several times has made it a point to bring me 2 in a bag!

What makes this so special is that someone other than myself goes out of her way to do something special for me……………a reward of some kind. And it makes me thankful and makes me feel special!

Now take that a step further and do something for yourself that you like/enjoy and makes you feel good about yourself and humankind!

That’s a great incentive,  reward yourself and others for the good things that you do!  Treat yourself to a movie! Buy that book that you’ve been wanting to read! Take a nap! Think only of yourself for once!

If I hurry I can get it done before the next hot batch of KKD’s hit the conveyer belt!

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WHEN YOUNG PEOPLE DIE WE WONDER WHY!!!!!!

RECENTLY A DEAR FRIEND OF MINE GOT A CALL THAT ONE OF HER GRANDSONS HAD BEEN IN A TERRIBLE TRUCK ACCIDENT! GRANDSON, AGE LATE TEENS! 

IN LESS THAN A WEEK THE YOUNG MAN WAS DEAD!

HOW CAN THIS HAPPEN? WHY DID THIS HAPPEN?

WHEN TRYING TO UNDERSTAND WHY THIS TRAGEDY HAPPENED:

IT WAS AN ACCIDENT REGARDLESS OF “FAULT”……………NOBODY WANTED IT TO HAPPEN! IN ONE MOMENT THE LIVES OF NUMEROUS PEOPLE/FAMILIES CHANGED FOREVER! NOTHING WILL EVER BE THE SAME WITH THEM AGAIN!

WHEN OLD PEOPLE DIE WE UNDERSTAND THAT THEY HAD A LONG LIFE AND MANY OPPORTUNITIES TO EXPERIENCE THE EARTH AND ALL OF ITS PARTICULARS. WHEN YOUNG PEOPLE DIE THE QUESTION BECOMES WHY!? THIS PERSON NEVER HAD A CHANCE TO LIVE A COMPLETE LIFE!!!! WHY NOT!? WHY DIDN’T SOME OTHER OLD PERSON JUST DIE IN THEIR PLACE AND LET THE YOUNG HAVE A SHOT AT A FULL LIFE?

OTHER QUESTIONS COME TO MIND:

DID GOD WANT THIS TO HAPPEN?

WAS SOME ONE BEING PUNISHED BY THIS ACT?

WAS IT JUST A RANDOM ACT LEADING TO AN ACCIDENT?

WHY? WHY? WHY? WE JUST CAN’T GRASP THE ANSWER!!!!! WE JUST CAN’T UNDERSTAND!!!!!

MY FRIEND’S ANSWER WAS: SOME THINGS WE NEVER UNDERSTAND BUT ACCEPT AND CONTINUE ON TO BECOME STRONGER IN LOVE AND FAITH AND SERVICE TO OTHERS.  A VERY NOBLE AND GOD LOVING ANSWER GIVEN BY ONE OF THE BEST PEOPLE I KNOW!

I KNOW THAT BUT MY HEART/SOUL WILL NOT LET ME STOP WITH THAT! “SEEK AND YE SHALL FIND” SO I WILL CONTINUE TO SEARCH FOR UNDERSTANDING…………AND I WILL FIND IT!

SOMETHING TO THINK ABOUT; THERE IS NOTHING WRONG WITH LEAVING IT WITH “SOME THINGS WE NEVER UNDERSTAND”.

BUT: WHAT IF:

1. WHEN OUR PURPOSE IN LIFE IS FULFILLED WE DIE.

2. SUPPOSE THAT OUR LIFE’S SOLE PURPOSE IS TO LIVE AND DIE SO THAT SOMEONE OR SOMEONES LEARN VALUABLE LESSONS ABOUT LIFE THAT THEY WOULDN’T LEARN WITHOUT OUR LIFE BEING LIVED AS IT IS/WAS?

3. SUPPOSE WE LIVE MORE THAN ONE LIFETIME? HAVING A SHORT ONE IN ONE LIFETIME MIGHT JUST BE FOLLOWED BY ONE OF 100 YEARS!

4. AND WHAT AFTER ALL IS THE PURPOSE OF A LIFETIME? WHO JUDGES WHETHER OR NOT IT WAS TOO SHORT OR TOO LONG?

WE ALL MAY NOT BE SATISFIED WITH THE SAME ANSWER.

BUT WE ALL SHOULD CONSIDER THAT WHATEVER A PERSON BELIEVES TO BE THE ANSWER IS THEIR CHOICE AND RESPECT IT BECAUSE NONE OF US ARE SO WISE THAT WE HAVE ALL OF THE “TRUE” ANSWERS OR IN FACT ANY OF THEM.

“ONE DAY THE VEIL WILL BE LIFTED AND YE SHALL UNDERSTAND”………..AND THAT IS GOOD ENOUGH FOR ME!

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RICH VERSUS POOR AND THE MEEK SHALL INHERIT THE EARTH! WOW!

“TOO BUSY TO LIVE, TOO DUMB TO SAVE, TAKE ALL FOOLS TO AN EARLY EMPTY GRAVE!” RAL

THE RICH ARE EVIL, THE POOR ARE LAZY, AND THE MEEK SHALL INHERIT THE WORLD! WOW!

I’VE BEEN “DIRT POOR” AND I’VE HAD PLENTY. TRUST ME, “HAVING PLENTY BEATS POOR” HANDS DOWN ANYTIME!

IMPORTANT FACT: “HAVING PLENTY” IS NOT DEFINED AS “BEING RICH”………….JUST SO YOU KNOW.!

WHEN I WAS YOUNG, I THOUGHT “THE RICH” WERE DIFFERENT FROM OTHER PEOPLE! AND THEY ARE! THEY HAVE MORE MONEY! WHICH ONES ARE HAPPIER? WELL, THE RICH MUST BE BECAUSE THEY HAVE MORE MONEY!

THE RICH MUST BE EVIL! WHY? BECAUSE THEY HAVE MORE MONEY? AND THEY MUST BE HAPPY BECAUSE THEY CAN BUY EVERYTHING THEY WANT! CARS, BOATS, GRAND HOUSES, FRIENDS, FAMILY, SUCCESS, WHATEVER MONEY CAN BUY!

“CAN’T BUY ME LOVE!”   YEAH……………SEE THAT DIAMOND RING ….MY FRIEND!  DA DA DA DA DA DA!

SO IF YOU HAVE MONEY AND YOU CAN BUY ANYTHING YOU WANT…………..NOW GO OUT AND BUY YOU SOME “HAPPY” AND GRAB SOME “HEALTH” WHILE YOU’RE AT IT! WHAT!? CAN’T BUY THOSE TWO WITH MONEY?  BUMMER!

IDEAS LIKE THOSE ABOVE FLOAT AROUND IN OUR HEADS!

MANY TIMES PEOPLE THAT HAVE MONEY ARE LABELED AS BEING EVIL……..WELL, THEY MUST BE IF THEY HAVE MONEY! AT LEAST THEY MUST BE DISHONEST OR EVERYBODY WOULD HAVE PLENTY MONEY AND EVERYBODY WOULD BE HAPPY!

COLD HARD FACTS:  1. SOME RICH PEOPLE INHERIT THERE MONIES! WHETHER THEY KEEP THEM OR NOT DEPENDS ON WHAT THEY DO WITH THEM! IF THEY SAVE AND WORK TO MAKE MORE MONEY, MANY YEARS LATER THEY WILL PROBABLY HAVE EVEN MORE THAN THEY DID BEFORE.

2. OTHER PEOPLE MAKE THEIR MONEY BY EDUCATION, HARD WORK AND THE DESIRE AND DETERMINATION THAT THEY CAN HAVE MONEY IF THE WANT IT AND WORK HARD FOR IT!

3. IT WAS REPORTED LATELY THAT THE RICHEST 1% OF THE PEOPLE ARE GETTING EVEN RICHER THAN EVER AND THE POOR AND MIDDLE CLASSES ARE GETTING POORER!

4. #3 ABOVE IS BECAUSE WHEN TIMES GET ROUGH THE PEOPLE WITH MONEY DON’T HAVE TO LOSE THEIR HOUSES, CARS, ETC. WHEN TIMES GET HARD……THEY JUST SIT TIGHT AND BUY UP ALL OF THE THINGS THE POOR AND MIDDLES CLASSES HAVE TO SELL AT “STEAL PRICES”  JUST TO HAVE ENOUGHT TO EAT WHEN THE TIMES GET BAD!

READ THE STORY IN THE BIBLE OF JOSEPH AND THE GRAIN IN EGYPT……LESSONS HAVE BEEN AVAILALBE “FOREVER”!

AND YES! IT IS JUST THAT SIMPLE!

5. THE RICH CREATE JOBS! THEY GIVE TO CHARITIES! THEY SAVE CHURCHES, BUILDINGS, ETC FROM BEING TORN DOWN, THEY GIVE SCHOLARSHIPS FOR COLLEGES………..WHY BECAUSE THEY CAN AND IT MAKES THEM HAPPY!

REMEMBER THAT WORD, HAPPY!

THE RICH CONSERVE THEIR WEALTH…………….THEY HAVE LONG RANGE PLANS……………EXAMPLE: THE AUGUSTA NATIONAL GOLF ASSOCIATION MUST HAVE A LONG RANGE PLAN: BUYING UP PROPERTY AS IT BECOMES AVAILABLE, KNOWING THAT IT MAY BE 50 YEARS DOWN THE ROAD BEFORE SOME PROPERTIES BECOME AVAILABLE……….BUT THEY CAN WAIT!  THEIR CHILDREN WILL COME ALONG AND THEY CAN BUY WHEN THE PRICE IS THE LOWEST AND TO THEIR GREATEST ADVANTAGE!

REMEMBER THAT WORD, SMART!

6. THE POOR DON’T SEEM TO HAVE A PLAN………THEY SPEND EVERY DIME THEY GET.  THEY DON’T THINK ABOUT THE FUTURE………..IT’S DAY BY DAY!

THEY SPEND WHAT THEY DON’T HAVE…………….NEVER ACCUMMULATING ANY SURPLUS. SO WHEN BAD TIMES COME AROUND, THEY LOSE THEIR HOMES, CARS, ETC. TO THE RICH WHO HAVE SAVED THEIR MONEY AND ARE MORE THAN WILLING TO BUY UP THOSE WONDERFUL BARGAINS!

AT THIS POINT YOU PROBABLY ARE SAYING TO YOURSELF…………WOW WHAT A MESS OF UNJOINTED JIBBERISH!

AND FOR SOME OF YOU, THAT MAY JUST BE THE RIGHT CONCLUSION……………..BUT FOR YOU OUT THERE THAT DO GET IT:

WAKE UP! MONEY CAN’T BUY YOU LOVE AND IT CAN’T BUY YOU HEALTH BUT IT CAN MAKE YOU A LOT MORE COMFORTABLE  WHILE YOU ARE WORKING TOWARD BOTH OF THEM!

I COULD GO ON A BIT………………AND SO I WILL!

LIFE IS A SERIES OF CHOICES! WE MUST LIVE WITH THE RESULTS OF THE CHOICES WE MAKE!

REMEMBERING THAT NOTHING IS FREE…………………DECIDE WHAT YOU WANT…………DEFINE IT IN DETAIL………..BELIEVE THAT YOU CAN GET IT…………AND GET OUT THERE AND GO FOR IT! NOBODY IS GOING TO JUST HAND IT TO YOU! YOU MUST CREATE YOUR OWN LUCK AND DO YOUR OWN WORK TO GET IT! BUT GET IT YOU CAN!

THE LAW OF ATTRACTON WORKS AND “PAYING IT FORWARD” GREASES THE WHEEL!

AND ALL THE WHILE, GOD IS SMILING AND SAYING, “I TOLD YOU SO!”

HEALTHY, HAPPY, WEALTHY AND WISE………..GO FOR IT!  WHAT HAVE YOU GOT TO LOSE? YEP, YOU KNOW!

H H / W W 

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IMPORTANT MESSAGE TO BLOG/TWITTER READERS, FOLLOWERS:

IT IS IMPORTANT TO REMEMBER THAT THESE BLOGS ARE ABOUT {MY LIFE’S LESSONS}!

I’M NOT TRYING TO “TELL” ANYBODY ANYTHING ABOUT THEMSELVES…….THIS IS ALL ABOUT ME!

SO IF YOU “SEE YOURSELF” IN ANY OF THE MATERIAL PRESENTED HERE………..MAYBE YOU SHOULD JUST THINK ABOUT THE SUBJECT……….AND NOT THINK THAT I AM UNDERHANDEDLY “TRYING TO TELL YOU SOMETHING I WOULDN’T TELL YOU TO YOUR FACE!

SO THIS BLOG IS ABOUT MY LIFE’S LESSONS…………..AND HOPEFULLY IT WILL MAKE YOU THINK ABOUT YOURS!

BLESSINGS OF LOVE AND LIGHT!

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GARDEN REPORT DOWN SOUTH…..MAY 2014

THE COLD WEATHER LASTED LONGER THAN MOST YEARS! EVERYTHING WAS ALMOST 3 WEEKS SLOWER IN COMING UP AND/OR DOING ANYTHING.

THE UNUSUALLY COLD WINTER/SPRING SEEMS TO HAVE MADE ALL PLANTS TO “COME BACK WITH A VENGENCE “! THE TREES ARE LEAFIER…………THE BLOOMS ARE BIGGER AND BRIGHTER! ALL IN ALL NOT BAD AT ALL! JUST LATE.

THE FIRST “BLOOM” OF THE ROSES IS ALMOST OVER (MAY 15TH)! TIME TO CUT THEM ALL BACK, FERTILIZE THEM, WATER THEM AND IN ABOUT 4 WEEKS OR LESS………MORE BEAUTIFUL BLOOMS. AS USUAL THE KNOCKOUT ROSES ARE SPECTACULAR! IF YOU HAVE NEVER HAD ANY LUCK WITH ROSES BUT WANT TO……….BUY A COUPLE OF THE “DOUBLE RED KNOCKOUT” ROSES! YOU WON’T REGRET IT!

“JULIA CHILD” AND “EASY DOES IT” ROSES COME BACK EVERY YEAR AND DO JUST GREAT! THIS YEAR “QUEEN ELIZABETH”, “TRUMPETER”, AND “DROP DEAD RED” ARE SHOW STOPPERS!

I DON’T SPRAY MY ROSES! YEAH, I’LL LOSE SOME LEAVES TO LEAF SPOT AND SOME BUGS WILL EAT SOME BUDS, ETC.

GRASSHOPPERS (ALL SIZES ) WILL EAT SOME LEAVES (SUCH FUN TO WATCH A BIRD SWOOP DOWN AND HELP ME RID THE ROSES OF THE GRASSHOPPERS)….SO I’LL SACRIFICE SOME LEAVES FOR THE BIRDS!

LOOK FOR “CRINUMS”  SOON! BUDS AND STEMS ARE ALREADY FORMING!

BUT IF YOU LOOK AT YOUR ROSES EVERY DAY OR SO, YOU CAN PREVENT MOST PROBLEMS WITHOUT A LOT OF SPRAYING! IF YOU DON’T BELIEVE IT, COME LOOK AT MY ROSES!

PLANTS ARE JUST LIKE PEOPLE! THE MORE LOVE AND CARE AND ATTENTION YOU GIVE THEM, THE BETTER THEY “PERFORM”!

FOR GARDEN QUESTIONS, SEND ME AN E-MAIL OR LEAVE A COMMENT ON THE BLOG.

HAPPY GARDENING TO YOU!

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POP, POP, WHIZ, WHIZ, OH WHAT A RELIEF IT IS!

I WILL NOT ATTEMPT TO CONTROL OTHER’S CHOICES. I WILL CONTROL MY OWN PARTICIPATION WITHIN THESE CHOICES!

WOW! I AM NO LONGER REPSONSIBLE FOR OTHERS……JUST MYSELF!

How “freeing” that decision is!

HAVING SAID THAT: WHY CONTINUE TO WRITE A BLOG OR TWITTER MESSAGES? WHY OFFER ADVICE? WHY WRITE BOOKS? WHY COMMUNICATE ANYMORE? JUST LET IS ALL HAPPEN! LOOK OUT FOR YOURSELF! YOU ARE THE ONLY PERSON THAT YOU ARE RESPONSIBLE FOR! LET THE OTHERS MAKE THEIR OWN DECISIONS……..THEN LIVE WITH THEM! THAT’S WHAT I HAVE TO DO! THEIR CHOICE, THEIR LIFE……..HAVE AT IT!

OF COURSE THERE IS NO SIMPLE ANSWER HERE! SO I ASK YOU WHO ARE READING THIS BLOG POST, WHAT DO YOU THINK? IF WE ARE NOT SUPPOSED TO BE ENABLERS, THEN WHAT ARE WE TO DO?

HOW ABOUT WE ALL JUST HELP THOSE WHO WILL AND ARE HELPING THEMSELVES………..AND LET THOSE WHO ARE NOT WILLING TO HELP THEMSELVES “JUST WALLER IN IT”!

PARENTS, FRIENDS, PREACHERS,TEACHERS, HUSBANDS, WIVES, AND ON AND ON AND ON………….WANT TO GIVE GOOD ADVICE TO THOSE THEY LOVE TO “SAVE THEM” FROM MAKING BAD CHOICES! WHAT’S WRONG WITH THAT?! GIVING ADVICE AND EXPECTING AND/OR DEMANDING THAT YOUR ADVICE BE FOLLOWED TO THE LETTER IS OVER STEPPING YOUR RIGHT TO THE “FREEDOM OF CHOICE” OF OTHERS!

HOW ABOUT IF WE WRITE THOSE BOOKS, GIVE THAT ADVICE. YES, DO ALL THOSE THINGS TO GIVE OUR OPINIONS TO OTHERS OUT THERE AND THEN STEP BACK AND LET ALL OF THE OTHERS MAKE UP THEIR OWN MINDS AND MAKE THEIR OWN CHOICES. YES! LEAVE THEM ALONE!

NOW HERE IS THE GOOD PART: WHATEVER THEY CHOOSE, THEY MUST LIVE WITH IT, RIGHT OR WRONG, EASY OR TOUGH! AND  YOU  CAN MAKE  A CHOICE TO CONTROL YOUR OWN PARTICIPATION IN THOSE CHOICES.

WARNING!!!!!!!!  SOME PEOPLE WILL WALK RIGHT OUT OF YOUR LIFE! YOU MAY NEVER SEE THEM AGAIN (MAYBE YOUR CHILDREN?) MANY PEOPLE YOU THOUGHT WERE THERE WITH YOU FOR A LIFETIME MAY DISAPPEAR.

ARE YOU BRAVE ENOUGHT, STRONG ENOUGH TO BE YOUR OWN PERSON AND LET OTHERS BE THEIRS?

IF YOU WANT TO BE HAPPY YOU’D BETTER BE!

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SOMEONE YOU KNOW HAS AN ADDICTION/WHAT DO YOU DO!?

THIS QUESTION MIGHT BEST BE ANSWERED BY ASKING “WHAT CAN I DO?”  WHAT WORKS? WHAT DOSEN’T?

FACTS/THOUGHTS:

1. MOST PEOPLE BECOME ENABLERS! OUT OF THE KINDNESS OF THEIR HEARTS AND SOULS THEY OFFER MONEY AND ALL OTHER KINDS OF HELP (thinking that it will help the person with the addiction succeed in breaking the habit).

Fact: By the time you find out about the addiction, it is usually too late to do any good with that kind of help.

2. THE PERSON WITH THE ADDICTION REFUSES TO BELIEVE THAT THEY HAVE A PROBLEM AND EVEN IF THEY DO THEY CAN FIX THE PROBLEM WITHOUT ANY BODY HELPING THEM OUT.

Fact: Addiction is mostly cured by professional help: doctors, rehabs, counselors, etc. NOT BY FRIENDS OR FAMILY MEMBERS!

3. BY THE TIME THE PERSON REALIZES THAT THEY DO HAVE A PROBLEM IT IS USUALLY TOO LATE FOR A TOTAL RECOVERY.

Fact: The recovery rate for long term addiction is very low.

MAJOR TRUTH: BEING AN ENABLER IS THE SINGLE WORST THING YOU CAN BE! IT DOES NOT WORK!

MAJOR TRUTH: ENABLERS LIVES ARE DESTROYED ALONGSIDE THE ADDICTED!

MAJOR TRUTH: TOTAL REMOVAL FROM THE ADDICTED IS NECESSARY FOR SUCCESS FOR EITHER GROUP!

MAJOR TRUTH: GUILT DRIVES MOST ENABLERS………I WOULDA, COULDA, SHOUDA DONE THIS OR THAT!

MAJOR TRUTH: WE ARE ALL REPSONSIBLE FOR OUR OWN LIVES, PERIOD! NOBODY ELSES! WE ALL MAKE CHOICES! WE ALL CAN ALWAYS MAKE DIFFERENT CHOICES.

WHY PRAYING DOESN’T WORK, BY THE ADDICTED OR THE LOVED ONES?

I DON’T KNOW!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! I WISH I DID!!!!!!!! IF YOU KNOW PLEASE TELL ME!!!!!!!!!!!!!

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ADDICTION, I JUST DON’T UNDERSTAND! AH! I’LL BET YOU DO!

INSIGHT ALERT!

So many times we hear from people who think that they don’t have an addiction but know everybody else that does, {I just don’t understand why they don’t “JUST STOP”}?!

Well it isn’t that simple , and YOU DO understand:

1. Do you have low blood sugar?  I do, and when I don’t eat something every 4 hours I get cranky and mean……..then I get AGGRESSIVE!

If I get a cracker or a candy bar in me, with in 5 minutes or less I’m “back to normal”. The point being that until I do get my blood sugar back to normal range, my personality changes, and I’ll do most anything to get something to eat!

2. Blood pH is very sensitive to variation in a very narrow range! Off by even 0.1 % and you won’t feel 100% “right”!

Blood pH is a little harder to correct, but drink a lot of water and that should put you on the road to feeling better.  Also eat some things that have salt and sugar in them. “Tums” help settle the stomach.

These two examples are only two of the many similar types of conditions that mirror or point to the feelings that more severe addictions lead us into,

A good rule might be to take how you feel under these “lesser” conditions and multiply that by say 10-100 and you’ll come closer to understanding the much stronger addictions such as drugs or alcohol!!!!!!!!!!!!!

So suppose now you admit that yes, you do have an idea of what addiction is and feels like, how do you or should you react now that you understand more than you did before?

See the next post for my “feelings” about that situation!

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Cemetaries……WHY GO?

WHY DO YOU GO TO THE CEMETARY?

DO YOU THINK THE PERSON YOU GO TO SEE IS THERE? OR IF THEY AREN’T THERE, WHEN YOU GO THEY WILL KNOW IT AND COME RIGHT AWAY?

OR IT MAKES YOU FEEL BETTER OR GOOD JUST GOING THERE?

I’M SURE SOME PEOPLE SAY YES TO THE ABOVE QUESTIONS. FOR THEM IT IS THE RIGHT THING TO GO!

ALL OF MY LIFE I’VE BEEN TO CEMETARIES TO “HONOR” THOSE WHO HAVE PASSED BEFORE US. A LOT OF BOOKS I’VE READ MADE IT SEEM LIKE THE ONES WE WENT TO SEE THERE ACTUALLY KNEW IT AND GOING MADE ALL OF US FEEL BETTER/HAPPY!

SO WHEN I’D GO TO SEE THE PEOPLE WHO HAD BEEN THE CLOSEST TO ME (IN MY WHOLE LIFE), I EXPECTED TO FEEL SOMETHING LIKE COMFORT, MAYBE SEE SOMETHING, HEAR SOMETHING…………..ANYTHING. YES, ANYTHING AT ALL!

BUT NOTHING! EVEN WHEN I MY MOTHER DIED AND WAS BURIED…………..DURING THE FIRST YEAR AFTER HER DEATH I’D TAKE FLOWERS, SIT/VISIT EXPECTING SOMETHING TO HAPPEN.  NOTHING DID! SO I QUIT GOING! NOTE NOW THAT THIS IS AFTER HAVING PUT FLOWERS ON RELATIVES, FRIENDS AND GOING TO FUNERALS FOR ALL KINDS OF PEOPLE OUT OF RESPECT TO THEM OR THEIR FAMILIES.

I’M A BIG FLOWER PERSON…………REAL FLOWERS……..NOTHING FAKE!

I DECIDED THAT I WOULD PLANT A CAMELIA BUSH AT A CERTAIN LOCATION IN OUR YARD AND THAT WOULD BE THE PLACE THAT I WOULD “VISIT MY MOTHER”. 9 YEARS NOW AND WHEN I GO THERE I FEEL NOTHING. DOES THIS MEAN THAT SHE ISN’T THERE? THAT SHE IS SOMEWHERE BUT WON’T COME OR CAN’T COME OR THAT SHE ISN’T ANYWHERE? AND WHY DON’T I FEEL ANYTHING? I WILL CONTINUE TO CARE FOR THE BUSH AND WILL “VISIT THERE”….JUST IN CASE!

NOBODY KNOWS WHAT IS ON THE OTHER SIDE…………..OR EVEN IF THERE IS AN “OTHER SIDE”!  OH YES! BOOKS HAVE BEEN WRITTEN ABOUT IT, AND SOME CLAIM TO HAVE BEEN THERE AND COME BACK BUT THEIR STORIES DIFFER IN A LOT OF AREAS……….SO WHAT IS THE TRUTH!?

SINCE I’M NOT READY TO DIE TO FIND OUT, I’M STILL GOING TO BELIEVE THAT WHEN I DIE I WILL JUST LEAVE ONE STAGE OF REALITY AND MOVE INTO ANOTHER. NOT DIE, JUST CHANGE FORMS. AND CONTINUE TO LEARN AND GROW AND LOVE AND LIVE AND MOVE CLOSER TO TOTAL BLISS…….WHATEVER THAT IS! BUT I THINK IT IS JUST BEING ECSTATICALLY HAPPY ALWAYS AND FOREVER! I CAN LIVE WITH THAT!

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THE BEST EXOTIC MARIGOLD HOTEL

GREAT MOVIE!

SOME MOVIES REALLY HAVE A GREAT MESSAGE TO THEM! This one certainly does that!

Life is short…………….what we do with it is important!

Don’t waste a lot of time doing what you don’t want to do! DO WHAT YOU DO WANT TO DO! DO YOU WANT TO GET TO THE END OF YOUR LIFE AND THINK, “I WISH I HAD DONE THIS OR THAT?”………….TOO LATE THEN! BUMMER!

BUMMER INDEED! 

WATCH THIS MOVIE, THINK ABOUT IT! BUY SEVERAL COPIES OF THE DVD AND GIVE THEM AWAY (leave them in the airport, doctor’s office, church, where ever people are). You just might change somebody’s life for the good!

AND WHILE YOU ARE AT IT, BUY A COPY OF “STILL LIFE” BY LOUISE PENNY AND DO THE SAME THING WITH IT!

PAY IT FORWARD!!!

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