Over the last year I’ve had a chance to review and evaluate my views on being a good person by helping others. After many discussions with friends about their feelings and mine, I have reconciled myself to One “Ultimate Truth” that for me enlightens my path and places me in a place of peace and happiness.

Each one of us has the insight and guidance from “above” through Grace to know what our true path is and how to stick to it. If we pay attention to our own paths and allow others to do the same, we are recognizing their right to choose how and what they will do with their lives. WE are not responsible for any other soul here on Earth or in Heaven. We each are here in this lifetime to learn and help when asked and we are able to do it, but ultimately we are here for ourselves to complete our missions for this lifetime. Keeping that in mind……we don’t overwhelm our selves and our lives by being “too overtly involved in the lives of others”. We respect their God given rights and abilities to take care of themselves.

Loving people find it very hard to not try to “over help” with ideas and advice of all kinds as to what should and should not be done in life situations. If we realize that all actions are right. They all lead to lessons learned one way or another. There may be better or easier roads to take but all roads lead to GOD.

Spend your time “fixing yourself”! If you are asked for help and can give it…………give it with no strings attached! No conditions…………..or judgements either.

GIVE everyone the benefit of the doubt, especially yourself!

“Choose what you will! Live with it you must!” ral